I can SO relate. It took me two weeks of wearing socks I didn't like to finally figure out that my socks were in my DSs drawer after MIL "helped" while Ayla was in the hospital. She folds everything that needs to be hung, and she folds it where the crease is down the center of a shirt. Drives me batty. I told J I didn't want her coming under the guise of helping. Visits - fine. Helping? NO!