yes, shame and guilt, so much so that I avoid this thread because of the title.
I am not a messy.
My house is cluttered and unorganized for many reasons, none of which are those implied by calling myself, 'a messy'.
I actually tend to avoid all housekeeping tips/tricks/contests/discussions because nobody wants to believe I've tried everything already.
sooo why am I posting? oh- the shame thing. yeah.