I haven't been able to read all of this thread, but do other Messies struggle with guilt and shame over their houses? I have a really toxic narrative running in my head about the state of my house. Like, all the time. My mom and grandma are both Cleanies, so compared to the way I grew up, we live in a sty.
Part of the issue is that I'm such a slow cleaner. I can never clean faster than my family can wreck the rooms behind me.
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