InglesideMomma

I completely agree with mamaKristin! 4 day old, not quite sure why she's out of momma's belly, and now doesn't have momma's warmth to sooth her, and left crying! I'm sorry, but I am traumatized by the fact I couldn't hold my children after they were born. I never even got to hold 2 of them before they went to the Lord, and I didn't get to hold and comfort the 3rd for a few weeks after birth, and that was just once or twice for the first 2 months.I can't even imagine what my poor son went through. I missed out on so much bonding time with him, and I'm so so so sorry, but this makes me upset to know that people have the opportunities to bond, and hold, and snuggle the pants of their kids, and don't take advantage of it. I would say something. If you don't feel comfertable speaking directly to her and her dh, then just try talking to her. for all of you. It may be easy for all of us to give you advise, but we're not in your shoes. All you can do is try, and push all the books on them that you can come up with, if you want to take a passive/aggressive shot at it.