Connected Families stuff looks good. I want my church to do it. Study guides are free online so you can look at the stuff. They don't focus on what not to do, but instead focus on building relationships, connecting and understanding the why of behavior.
http://connectedfamilies.org/
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I second Families Where Grace is in Place - very good, but I don't know of study guides? Maybe they don't need them.