Couldn't this verse sum up why the Pearls teaching is so very wrong?
Colossians 3:21 "Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged."
Because it seems to me that if you are setting your children up, you are provoking them to anger.
I know the Pearls want you to set up situations so that your child will get in trouble so you can "train" them.
It just seems like this verse would be 100% against that.
Yet most Pearl followers will tell you they are following the "Biblical" way.