We have a ton of bickering and rudeness. It breaks my heart. But for now our current rhythm is a theme of the month literally given to us by the Lord. March was 'Relationships Matter'. and April is 'Communicate with Kindness'. I love these themes because they offer us talking points beyond what I want to scream in my own human-ness. I am excited to see what May brings. LOL. So much of parenting is adaptive leadership! you can do this, keep talking and loving on your babies.