Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
do you like to be humiliated?
do you like to be yelled at?
do you like to be shamed?
do you like to be hit?
do you like to be told you are never quite good enough?
I thought not.
I think, if this verse was thought of with every interaction with our children, we would all come out a lot better.
so basic and yet so hard to do!