Re: Dialoguing with a friend
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Originally Posted by Maggirayne
Changing from a punitive to graceful mindset is the hardest part, IMO.
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You aren't kidding. It is easy to say okay, I won't spank. Then you realize you still have to make this kid obey you and you have no clue what to do. Then you learn that you are not making the kid obey you are creating a relationship and that is mind blowing when it finally clicks.
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