Re: Spanking "works"
But does it really work when you must spank a few days later for the same offense? Or you can GOYB and help them or make it happen many times and eventually they learn. Either way, it takes time. I think I first heard Crystal say that on one hand you can spank or GBD on the other and either way, once they reach the developmental stage they move out of that behavior. The one lady says it is the result of her spanking, but really we see the child may have just caught up cognitively with what the parents were requiring.
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Linda, wife for 24 years to dh,
mom to ds-21, dd-19, ds-16, ds-13, ds-10, ds-7, and ds 6
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