Butterfly,
I do come from a Pearl background, though we were not "in" as long as you. It was the most destructive thing I've ever done with my children, and leaving it behind was incredibly difficult (not saying that to scare you... just being truthful). On the up side, the changes that I was required to make (mostly in myself) were a catalyst for the most profound personal and spiritual growth I've ever experienced. There is so much I want to say.. *taking a deep breath*
I will post more later... just wanted to give you a
and let you know that I am one who has made the switch.