Purple, I see your point about HSLDA
I think, as Betsy pointed out, the list she compiled is more a "for your information and awareness" list, not necessarily a "boycott" list.
I don't know of an alternative to the HSLDA, and although I am dismayed to realize the connections to a belief system which I hate, and I will continue to support them.
That is quite a bit different, in my mind, than purchasing books from the VF website or attending a conference where a Patriarchal speaker would be giving a message. kwim?
This thread has been very interesting to me, thank you all so much for participating!