KatherineM

WOW! Did I read the same book? Yes, I did, but I definately didn't take it the way that it seems most did. Yes, there are things in the book that I didn't 100% agree with, but overall, I agreed with the book. It is addressed to women which is why it sounds like everything is the wife's fault. Because we can only change OUR attitudes, OUR behavior. I mean if you put a sentence in there that makes a woman feel sorry for herself, the message of how to fix the situation with OUR behavior will be lost because many women will look at that one sentence and say, "see, I knew it wasn't MY fault". Also, the description of men, she states clearly that most men will be a little of all three. Some will be more Commando and very little dreamer etc. Personally, I have had this same discussion about Dr. Laura's book and what I am finding is that we don't like to hear where we need to change in clear cut terms. We want the sugar coated version. Anyway, I guess I am the dissenting voice in the group as I found the book to be truly inciteful.