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Serafine · 10-18-2010, 09:46 PM

Well, a few thoughts about your OP:

1) I don't think it is Scriptural that a CHILD sins.

2) I don't think that childish misbehavior offends G-d.

3) It is my job to model a relationship with G-d, to teach them who G-d is and that He wants a relationship with Him and to show them how wonderful it is to be in a relationship with G-d by them seeing MY relationship with Him.
4) It is G-d's job to show them their need for Him and to draw them to Him. Any assumption/effort on my part to do that for Him is, IMO, trying to take the place of G-d...not something I want to do.

ETA: Yes, we can state G-d's standards for abundant living as we teach our kids...but not in a "your behavior offends G-d, see how sinful and in need of G_d you are"...but rather a "This is how best to live according to the loving instructions G_d gave us. Here, let me help you do that until you are old enough to do it for yourself."

The motivation and the mindset difference is HUUUUUGE (and, IMO, super important).

10-18-2010, 09:46 PM	#2
Serafine Deactivated Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 9,444	Re: reaching our children's hearts Well, a few thoughts about your OP: 1) I don't think it is Scriptural that a CHILD sins. 2) I don't think that childish misbehavior offends G-d. 3) It is my job to model a relationship with G-d, to teach them who G-d is and that He wants a relationship with Him and to show them how wonderful it is to be in a relationship with G-d by them seeing MY relationship with Him. 4) It is G-d's job to show them their need for Him and to draw them to Him. Any assumption/effort on my part to do that for Him is, IMO, trying to take the place of G-d...not something I want to do. ETA: Yes, we can state G-d's standards for abundant living as we teach our kids...but not in a "your behavior offends G-d, see how sinful and in need of G_d you are"...but rather a "This is how best to live according to the loving instructions G_d gave us. Here, let me help you do that until you are old enough to do it for yourself." The motivation and the mindset difference is HUUUUUGE (and, IMO, super important). Last edited by Serafine; 10-18-2010 at 09:48 PM.

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