Bigger projects and decluttering just wait untill I have a chunk of time I can dedicate to the task..
I need to do our bedroom for example we've piled a lot of thigs I need to go through in corners and such.. It is going to wait untill our Christmas break and sometime I'll have DH take the kids out and let me work uninterputed so I can get it done...
Daily- we do general house work and tidying up one big clean then 1-2 smaller quick tidy ups.
Dishes- done as we go catch up during big clean time
Laundry gets done through out the week as needed with big catch up times on Fridays..
Depending on age of kids and season of live "clean and tidy" looks different.