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03-24-2005, 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Sanveann

I had really fallen for the Woodshed line and was discussing it on another board when someone directed me here

Me too....hook, line, and sinker.

What's funny is.... just like many of the ladies on that board (at least, back when I was posting anyway) I actually came to woodshed from an ap background. Then when I felt like I was being too harsh, went back to ap. I think I actually went to "permissive" tho because I was sooooo lost as to what to do since I was no longer spanking, kwim? Well, we have been doing PD again for several months now-the longest we have stuck w/it, besides AP from infancy til age 2 with the oldest lol-and I finally have a "grasp" of what PD should really look like. I have the "tools" in my toolbox now.

I would love to talk more indepth with those others who have been affected by Pearls/Woodshed. Maybe we could be each other's support

My biggest thing *now* that I need help with is....rebuilding that attachment with my older children that got lost in the Pearl/Woodshed hoopla.

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