Words as magic vs bald faced lying
Caden messed with my contacts this morning and I told him I knew he has but needed to know what he'd put in the cylinder. He bald faced lied several times even after I said he wasn't in trouble. I wasn't accusatory I wasn't yelling.
He lost my contacts.
When he finally told the truth I thanked him.
What is the difference between lying and words as magic? How should I have handled the above.
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Heather (ISTJ)
working full time, wife to Jason since '02, mom to C 12 years old, J 9 years old , and T 6 years old , mouse catching, Izzy, and rabbit chasing, Ellie.
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