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Old 10-13-2010, 12:46 PM   #6
ShiriChayim
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Default Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;)

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Originally Posted by allisonintx View Post
Healthy Message Board Living:


Take no offense for someone else...especially if they don’t appear offended!


This is an energy suck of epic proportion and causes more board strife than the two people who are struggling actually working out what is going on without everyone else coming in trying to interpret for them.

If you believe another member has been wronged by a sister here, attacking the person who wrongs them is not going to be productive or helpful. Encouraging the women to work out their issues according to Matthew 18 absolutely *will* be helpful every time. If you see a thread going this way, contact a Moderator or an Admin who will help the ladies take their disagreement to PM per the board policy.
I'm giggling ironically at this one because I've seen this SO MANY TIMES where the two people actually involved end up all and everyone else is all and generally mods are going (See my lovely use of emoticons there?)
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