Is dh modelling appropriate behavior or addressing it in the same way you are?
And DixieKitten
Think about how Jesus would hear the disciples doing or talking about something wrong and rather than addressing what they did he would tell them a parable
And then when they were in the moment of wrong behavior he would stop them, but lessons would come at differen times. For example--how Jesus taught them about children. When they were keeping the children away from them he said, "Hey, knock it off, let them come to me!" And at other times he talked about coming to him like a little child, and how the kingdom of God is like a little child, and how what we do to the least of these we do to him