Gentle Christian Mothers Community - View Single Post - Family Gets Your Best or No One Gets the Rest Help?

jandjmommy · 04-26-2012, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by J3K

My issue with "Family Gets the Best or No One Get the Rest" is that it leaves no room for "being at home"....

This notion that I have to be "on" while at home , that I must be perfect and behave all the time or my outside friends get taken away....it's odd. And a bit cruel.

Yes -- this is why I'm not sure the "family gets your best..." thing even goes with GBD; I've just seen it a lot on the boards so it's in my head. I absolutely do not require -- or desire! -- forced cheerfulness or "on" behavior. I'd think that he could do better with a break from home except that a few times he has carried his mood with him to activities. That's why I kept him home, not a "you upset me so you can't go" thing.
I think I'll just push through without keeping him home in the future. The end of the crazy schedule is just a couple weeks away anyway

Thanks!

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