Tried talking to my ex-husband (again) about a few of these issues when he dropped the kids off last night after we got Aidan to stop crying. Of course I got the usual "I had to clean my plate and I turned out fine" excuse I always get. And the usual "my house, my rules" excuse whenever I bring up my concerns about how much screen time he allows.
I just let it go because it was late and my kids needed baths/showers and early beds.
But he did agree to help me pay for a play therapist.
I found out that the one we took Rachel to is no longer in business, but hopefully we can find one that is just as good.