[rjy9343]

NGJ worries me, too. I freely admit that if I had not found GCM first, I would have most likely gotten caught in their net. They sound so loving and kind at first. They are so into natural/crunchy things and explain why it is best for your baby. They are close to their grown children (I always look at the relationship gurus have with their children before taking advice). They even make spanking sound gentle and loving. Not like it is the best bad option, but the kindest and gentlest. That is no small feat. It is actually very impressive if you think about it.
Like you, I was new mother searching for something better than what I had. I had no idea what I wanted to do, only what I wanted to avoid. I knew that I did not want to spank or cio, but would do whatever had to be done. TTUAC would have been dangerous for me. I am the product of abuse and wanted better for my baby. So I would have done whatever they said because I did not have a good model.