James Dobson quote
Someone I like and respect, with four grown children, posted a James Dobson quote on facebook:
"A child who assaults the loving authority of his parents is greatly assured when their leadership holds firm and confident. He finds his highest security in a structured environment where the rights of other people (and his own) are protected by definite boundaries." --Dr. James Dobson
This just sits so wrong with me for some reason (besides the fact it is James Dobson). I believe in loving authority and structure and boundaries. Very much so. But highest security? I would think a child finds his highest security in the unconditional love of God and his parents. And "assault" is such a combative, adversarial term.
And I feel like I can't say anything because I'm just a young mom with a 3 and 1 year old.
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