I have 2 hands!!!
The basic story was that there was a mom who was telling Dr. Dobson that she and her 12 y/o dd had been having the worst year ever, fighting constantly. He asked what was going on and she said that her dd wanted to shave her legs but mom felt that she was too young. Dr. Dobson's basic response was that while he understood, making this a point to ruin a relationship over was not worth it and to let her shave her legs. Save this kind of "battle" over the big things like drugs.
It just made me wonder if his stuff for older kids was better or if it was one of the good things mixed in with the punitive stuff.