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04-21-2005, 09:34 AM

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it's like everything is magnified now that we are studying this book. like i'm really supposed to be learning it.

yes yes yes!!!

I just wanted to quote something from the book about resistance

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when you become aware of resistance tell yourself "resistance is your friend" resistance acts as the brakes in your life. without resistance, change might come too fast. sometimes we do need to slow down , doing so can be wise. notice that when your children are changing the fastest because of their natural develpment, they are most resistant to you. they must use their brakes, just as you must

I think I need to remind myself of this daily because I get so "geez, Im learning this and I should know better and blah blah blah" beating myself up about it.
anyway, change is hard, we arent going to turn into super awesome parents overnight

but can you imagine, at the end of the seven weeks, looking back at these first few post, and where we might be? Im looking forward to that.

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