Gentle Christian Mothers Community - View Single Post - Adult children of Ezzo-type upbringing?

JustMandy · 02-22-2011, 08:15 PM

Yes, my parents and step parents were very harsh.

I have crappy relationships with each of them. I have a hard time with feeling important or worth while. I rarely feel whole. I have a hard time connecting with my kids because I was never interacted with for the purpose of relationship. I have a hard time not expecting too much from dd because so much was expected of me.

---------- Post added at 10:15 PM ---------- Previous post was at 10:13 PM ----------

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cherish

I get this.
I can't bear to see a grown man take off his belt... (Dh knows to do that out of my sight. *sigh* I can't wait till he's an old man and has to wear suspenders!) I also have had to recover from soooo many issues irt this kind of upbringing... everything from not being allowed to have boundaries to not being willing to let people touch me, to having to train myself not to zone out and ignore children... but God is really good at fixing broken things.

Wow...this exactly.

X vBulletin 3.8.3 Debug Information
Page Generation 0.04948 seconds Memory Usage 6,951KB Queries Executed 14 (?)
More Information
Template Usage: (1)SHOWTHREAD_SHOWPOST (1)ad_footer_end (1)ad_footer_start (1)ad_header_end (1)ad_header_logo (1)ad_navbar_below (1)bbcode_quote (1)cyb_flashimagebanners (1)footer (1)gobutton (1)header (1)headinclude (19)option (1)post_groan_box (1)post_groan_javascript (1)post_groan_navbar_search (1)post_thanks_box (1)post_thanks_javascript (1)post_thanks_navbar_search (1)postbit_legacy (1)postbit_onlinestatus (11)postbit_reputation (1)postbit_wrapper (1)spacer_close (1)spacer_open Phrase Groups Available: global postbit reputationlevel showthread	Included Files: ./showpost.php ./global.php ./includes/init.php ./includes/class_core.php ./includes/config.php ./includes/functions.php ./includes/class_hook.php ./includes/functions_notice.php ./mobiquo/smartbanner.php ./includes/functions_bigthree.php ./includes/class_postbit.php ./includes/class_bbcode.php ./includes/functions_reputation.php ./includes/functions_post_thanks.php ./includes/functions_post_groan.php ./includes/functions_misc.php Hooks Called: init_startup cache_permissions fetch_postinfo_query fetch_postinfo fetch_threadinfo_query fetch_threadinfo fetch_foruminfo style_fetch cache_templates global_start parse_templates fetch_musername notices_check_start global_setup_complete showpost_start bbcode_fetch_tags bbcode_create postbit_factory showpost_post postbit_display_start post_thanks_function_post_thanks_off_start post_thanks_function_post_thanks_off_end post_thanks_function_fetch_thanks_start post_thanks_function_fetch_thanks_end post_thanks_function_thanked_already_start post_thanks_function_thanked_already_end post_groan_function_post_groan_off_start post_groan_function_post_groan_off_end post_groan_function_fetch_groans_start post_groan_function_fetch_groans_end post_groan_function_groaned_already_start post_groan_function_groaned_already_end reputation_image postbit_imicons bbcode_parse_start bbcode_parse_complete_precache bbcode_parse_complete postbit_display_complete error_fetch showpost_complete
Messages: