Re: What changed your perspective?
Probably the biggest thing for me was finding GCM. I already knew I didn't want to spank but I didn't know what else to do. I did time outs for a bit when Evan was really young (too young to understand them). But I have also experienced a "simple" spanking turn to abuse. I didn't want that for my kids. GCM gave me reasoning and the words to back up my decision.
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Carrie ~ ISFJ
Evan ~ February 2008
Joshua ~ November 2009
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