I think our pastor's fairly neutral. He's mentioned being raised that way. I'm pretty sure he has a temper, and I think he's had to learn to deal with it.
I'd say our church is pretty much Dobson-ish. I know the head of our children's ministry is naturally GBD minded. I've mentioned the anti-spanking promotional gear and what it has on it (from Jadensmom) and he thought it was hysterically cool. I didn't realize it, but the Sunday school committee was trying to find someone to do a class on Dobson's Strong-Willed Child a while back. I gave them Ross Campbell's book on anger and they chose that one over the Dobson book... the head of the children's ministry lead it
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