It depends on exactly what he said, exactly what you feel are the problems with it, and exactly what topic you want to address.
Like, if he just said, "spanking's cool" then I'd probably roll my eyes, sputter a lot, complain a bunch to DH, and let it go.
But if he said, "As Christians you *must* spank", then I would be addressing it. You know?
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