Gentle Christian Mothers Community - View Single Post - Serious regrets lately............(just a whine)

06-25-2005, 10:40 AM

yeah I do know! I dealt with that with number one... then coming here I really felt regretful because I felt like I missed out on so much

sometimes there are times I still feel sad I didnt nurse dd longer, I wonder if this or that has made her have her special issues... on and on. but all I can think of to tell myself, is that its made me even more convicted that I am now doing the right thing

I have been through what those people said to do, and it didnt work. and it made me feel miserable. so I guess I can say that it has helped me become the mother I am today

and just learn from the mistakes, be stronger now and get through it

I think there is a time for mourning what was lost, and dont deny that

06-25-2005, 10:40 AM	#2
Irene Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Serious regrets lately............(just a whine) yeah I do know! I dealt with that with number one... then coming here I really felt regretful because I felt like I missed out on so much sometimes there are times I still feel sad I didnt nurse dd longer, I wonder if this or that has made her have her special issues... on and on. but all I can think of to tell myself, is that its made me even more convicted that I am now doing the right thing I have been through what those people said to do, and it didnt work. and it made me feel miserable. so I guess I can say that it has helped me become the mother I am today and just learn from the mistakes, be stronger now and get through it I think there is a time for mourning what was lost, and dont deny that

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