None of the above. When I was 9-13 our church was pretty heavy handed & punative. I know they were big into Bill Gothard. But eventually we were asked to leave when my parents made some good choices for us kids, by sending us to a different non-church supported school. I didn't read anything by those folks on my own parenting journey. My tendancies towards punativeness unfortunately can be blamed on no one but my own sinful nature!