greenishmama
03-23-2013, 06:28 AM
almost 5 yr old DS blames others for his hurts and accidents over and over when it's not even logical. Like just now, I was across the room combing 7 yr old DS's hair and 5 yr DS was playing with a rubber band. Well it snapped him in the cheek- really bad! (never saw a mark like that) As I tried to comfort him (which he yells and freaks out if I want to DO anything like put arnica or ice on something) he then started blaming 7 yr old ds saying it was all his fault. How do I respond to that? I'm not good at reflecting feelings (mostly forget) but I have trouble saying "you feel it's all his fault" cause it's not even remotely true!
Ideas on what to say to respond?
while I'm here... he'll also say other irrational things when he's upset like if his mittens are wet outside he'll end up saying "I'm going to wear them forever and never take them off" (when really he's upset and wants them off. ?) or well, there's other strange stuff he says too. Like when he was upset about me apparently not helping him get up off the floor instantaneously he started talking about taking his underwear off. :scratch
Ideas on what to say to respond?
while I'm here... he'll also say other irrational things when he's upset like if his mittens are wet outside he'll end up saying "I'm going to wear them forever and never take them off" (when really he's upset and wants them off. ?) or well, there's other strange stuff he says too. Like when he was upset about me apparently not helping him get up off the floor instantaneously he started talking about taking his underwear off. :scratch