mom2afew
12-01-2011, 09:51 AM
maybe a little history from the last week. my family has been sick with colds and flu, like bad colds, and pukey flu bug at the same time. my poor kids, it's been really rough week. they're starting to feel better today, not coughing as much, no more runny noses, and no more tummy aches. but my oldest, she's throwing these tantrums like she's 2! out of no where she just starts having a fit and screaming, kicking and swinging her arms, shaking her head, it's crazy, she's not done this for a long long time.
Maybe i need some script to get her out of it, but i've tried asking her to use her words to help us understand what she's upset about. she just continues on, i tell her if she wants to behave this way she should go do it in her room so she won't hurt anyone, well i tell her i'll bring her to her room so she can't hurt anyone but she's getting very heavy for that. I ask her why shes behaving the same as when she was 2, and nothing, she just continues.
Maybe it's just left overs from being sick. but it's incredibly frustrating when it hasn't been an issue and i know she knows how to communicate.
Maybe i need some script to get her out of it, but i've tried asking her to use her words to help us understand what she's upset about. she just continues on, i tell her if she wants to behave this way she should go do it in her room so she won't hurt anyone, well i tell her i'll bring her to her room so she can't hurt anyone but she's getting very heavy for that. I ask her why shes behaving the same as when she was 2, and nothing, she just continues.
Maybe it's just left overs from being sick. but it's incredibly frustrating when it hasn't been an issue and i know she knows how to communicate.