joysworld
11-11-2011, 10:56 AM
I have always had my children include each other in their play. If two are playing together, they may not exclude the other sibling. Now, if they are playing alone, they can exclude others all they want.
This has been fine, until recently. The girls (3 and 5) will play together and will leave out brother. Or the other older two (5 and 6) will play together and leave out the 3 year old. Well, today the older two were playing together, and were purposefully leaving out dd3. They even went as far as making signs that said 'no CH only L and A' and wanted to tape it on their door. And CH made a sign that 'said' no A and L, only CH and wanted to put it on her door.
I have big feelings about purposefully excluding others. When we are with our homeschool group, if some of the kids are excluding L because of his sn, I make sure to nip it in the bud. I also don't allow my kids to exclude other children when we are with our homeschool group.
I really didn't know how to handle them making signs of exclusion, so I just changed the subject to lunch. How can I handle this?
This has been fine, until recently. The girls (3 and 5) will play together and will leave out brother. Or the other older two (5 and 6) will play together and leave out the 3 year old. Well, today the older two were playing together, and were purposefully leaving out dd3. They even went as far as making signs that said 'no CH only L and A' and wanted to tape it on their door. And CH made a sign that 'said' no A and L, only CH and wanted to put it on her door.
I have big feelings about purposefully excluding others. When we are with our homeschool group, if some of the kids are excluding L because of his sn, I make sure to nip it in the bud. I also don't allow my kids to exclude other children when we are with our homeschool group.
I really didn't know how to handle them making signs of exclusion, so I just changed the subject to lunch. How can I handle this?