Sparrow
05-07-2010, 09:47 AM
This morning Aaron had a little bit of computer time will I tidied up the bathroom and bedroom. He knew (and was warned) that when I was done he had to get off. He also knows that if he refuses to get off that he will not be allowed to use the computer next time he asks.
He got off without too much trouble. He was playing quietly when he asked to watch a DVD. We don't ever watch TV this time of day. I reminded him that he could play, each suggestion was followed by an angry NO. He went into the cabinet where I used to keep the DVDs (they're now in a CD case and kept high out of anyone's reach. Even I need a chair) and opened up the DVD player. Two things he is not supposed to do. I went up to him when he was in the cabinet and gently removed him.
He asked again for a DVD. Again, I said no, and told him he could watch one when I was making dinner (which is normal around here). He then threw a pencil at me. I picked him up and out of desperation told him to sit until he was ready to be nice. :shifty Then, he bit me.
So I sat on the couch with him in a bit of a bear hug until he said he was ready to get down.
He's still getting into stuff. I know he's bored, but he won't play. He only wants to watch TV. I feel like if I just say yes he'll stop being a monkey - which I need him to do.
I also feel like the threats are going to start flying out of my mouth - "if you don't stop ________ I'll xyz". I HATE that because usually it's something ridiculous and impossible to uphold.
He got off without too much trouble. He was playing quietly when he asked to watch a DVD. We don't ever watch TV this time of day. I reminded him that he could play, each suggestion was followed by an angry NO. He went into the cabinet where I used to keep the DVDs (they're now in a CD case and kept high out of anyone's reach. Even I need a chair) and opened up the DVD player. Two things he is not supposed to do. I went up to him when he was in the cabinet and gently removed him.
He asked again for a DVD. Again, I said no, and told him he could watch one when I was making dinner (which is normal around here). He then threw a pencil at me. I picked him up and out of desperation told him to sit until he was ready to be nice. :shifty Then, he bit me.
So I sat on the couch with him in a bit of a bear hug until he said he was ready to get down.
He's still getting into stuff. I know he's bored, but he won't play. He only wants to watch TV. I feel like if I just say yes he'll stop being a monkey - which I need him to do.
I also feel like the threats are going to start flying out of my mouth - "if you don't stop ________ I'll xyz". I HATE that because usually it's something ridiculous and impossible to uphold.