boobymummy
03-04-2009, 06:20 AM
Im feeling a bit confused tonight so I thought hey, why not talk to some Christian chicks online? My husband has decided we are going to move 7 hours away from where we live. We had been discussing it for a long time (well about moving or travelling or doing SOMETHING apart fom what we are doing). For me, I guess there are lots of reasons, mainly I want a change, a season away try something new, be less tied down and maybe I will appreciate my home more. It all started for me when I was pregnant and nearly died from hyperemesis (extrememly bad all day and night sickness). I just wanted to get away and lie in a tent with an esky of ice by myself. It was a really rough season. Im not sure how long I want to go for whether a short season or long... For my husband he wants to go to this town because he has met some Christian older men who really help him. He really wants a father figure as his own dad has been a big influence on him and he's not a Christian. He wants a fresh start and to become his own man away from some of the influences around here.
He wants to sell all our furniture a live minimalistically (ie microwave, bed and small fridge and hardly any clothes). I kinda fine with the minimal thing. In a way I am keen to as well and there is a lot we could get rid of but also Ive been thinking like we got given heaps of our stuff and its really good furniture which we couldn't normally afford. Yes God can provide but Im wondering if its wisdom to get rid of it. We could put it in storage. Rent is much cheaper in the new town so we could afford it. And get rid of alot of the things we don't need. In some ways I think my husband is relieved not to have to worry about removalists if he can just sell a heap on ebay or something. See I don't want to be an Eve and stop him from doing what God is calling us to do (if indded he is calling us to do it). I think it will be really good for steve to have a season away, and myself too but Ive been poor all my life. I know God can provide, but I just feel its important to appreciate things too. Sometimes he is almost aggresive about how the family members who gave us the furniture need to not be so materialistic and he says that scripture about the guy Jesus said "Sell all you have and give the money to the poor". Not that we are giving it away but he just doesn't want to be tied down to this earth.
Anyway, I just don't want us to make an unwise decision that we can't take back. In a way I am willing to just throw it all to the wind and go camping in a tent but I was praying about this the other week and saw a link between me doing this and my mum who is very flighty and I really want to be a more stable force in Asher's life. I want to serve God whatever it takes, whether that means stability or getting rid of it all. I mean, most important is that Steve and I stick together Im sure that will be the most important thing we can do for him.
Are you feeling any advice or wisdom in the Lord. Im sorry if this is all over the place. God bless
He wants to sell all our furniture a live minimalistically (ie microwave, bed and small fridge and hardly any clothes). I kinda fine with the minimal thing. In a way I am keen to as well and there is a lot we could get rid of but also Ive been thinking like we got given heaps of our stuff and its really good furniture which we couldn't normally afford. Yes God can provide but Im wondering if its wisdom to get rid of it. We could put it in storage. Rent is much cheaper in the new town so we could afford it. And get rid of alot of the things we don't need. In some ways I think my husband is relieved not to have to worry about removalists if he can just sell a heap on ebay or something. See I don't want to be an Eve and stop him from doing what God is calling us to do (if indded he is calling us to do it). I think it will be really good for steve to have a season away, and myself too but Ive been poor all my life. I know God can provide, but I just feel its important to appreciate things too. Sometimes he is almost aggresive about how the family members who gave us the furniture need to not be so materialistic and he says that scripture about the guy Jesus said "Sell all you have and give the money to the poor". Not that we are giving it away but he just doesn't want to be tied down to this earth.
Anyway, I just don't want us to make an unwise decision that we can't take back. In a way I am willing to just throw it all to the wind and go camping in a tent but I was praying about this the other week and saw a link between me doing this and my mum who is very flighty and I really want to be a more stable force in Asher's life. I want to serve God whatever it takes, whether that means stability or getting rid of it all. I mean, most important is that Steve and I stick together Im sure that will be the most important thing we can do for him.
Are you feeling any advice or wisdom in the Lord. Im sorry if this is all over the place. God bless