tnaallen
08-26-2008, 05:47 PM
My 4 year old is constantly trying to scare her sister (2 years old). Growling or saying key words to scare her (did I write this already? :scratch ). I've told her it makes her sister scared, and related it to how she feels over certain things, etc... But she still does it. Sometimes I know what it's about, like trying to get her away from her and her toy, etc.. But 90% of the time I have no idea why..maybe boredum? It's as though she just does it to be mean. I'm trying to give positive intent, but most of the time I have no idea.
The second thing that has come up is teasing. "I'm going to get the pink cup. Nyah, nyah, nyah, nyah, nyah, nyah." And similar. "You're picture isn't pretty. Mine is. ha ha ha."
What do you do about this?
I've had to send her to her room sometimes because she just continues to talk back no matter what I say and some of the things she says I don't want the little one to pick up (which at the stage we are in, the 2 yr old is mimicing 99% of everything her older sister is doing. :doh ).
So I'm trying to come up with a general rule for these things. Except when I can see the deep meaning..then I address that. But most times I have no clue and would like to address the behavior consistantly.
The second thing that has come up is teasing. "I'm going to get the pink cup. Nyah, nyah, nyah, nyah, nyah, nyah." And similar. "You're picture isn't pretty. Mine is. ha ha ha."
What do you do about this?
I've had to send her to her room sometimes because she just continues to talk back no matter what I say and some of the things she says I don't want the little one to pick up (which at the stage we are in, the 2 yr old is mimicing 99% of everything her older sister is doing. :doh ).
So I'm trying to come up with a general rule for these things. Except when I can see the deep meaning..then I address that. But most times I have no clue and would like to address the behavior consistantly.