Piper2
09-24-2007, 07:01 AM
One of the guys in our pipe band has started bringing his young teenage (not sure exactly how old she is) niece to band practices because she supposedly wants to learn to play snare drum (she apparently plays in her school band, but pipe band snare is pretty different technique-wise). DH is the one teaching her, and besides the fact that he doesn't know if she's going to make it musically, she has a real problem with tattling. We've got 2 elementary-aged boys also learning drums (Kevin and our Pipe Sergeant's son), and the last 2 times we've gone to practice, this girl was constantly coming to us and telling us they were doing this or touching that. :rolleyes Last time, she kept coming to me and telling what the PS's son and his little brother (who doesn't usually come) were doing to each other when their mother was sitting just across the room. :scratch Quite honestly, if G was willing to sit there and let D use his head as a practice pad (he was actually playing on his little brother's head with drumsticks), I didn't care. :shifty But I finally pointed out their mother to the girl so she could go bug her instead of me.
DH and I have started referring to her as "The Informer", which I know isn't nice. :O And DH is the one who is having to deal with her most of the time. Is there any kind of gentle response he can give to her when she keeps bugging him about the boys simply acting like boys? DH and I and the other boy's father are watching them 99% of the time, and we call them away if we see them heading towards something they shouldn't be doing (we practice at the National Guard Armory most of the time), so it's not like they're constantly running around unsupervised. We hate to say anything to the girl's uncle because he's a really sweet man (Christian, too, from what I've seen), and we don't want to make things awkward for him. :shrug2 But DH is a little less patient than I am, and I'd like to find some sort of game plan for him to have so that he's less likely to explode on the poor girl during some stressful moment. :blush
This is just something I've never had to deal with before...Kevin usually doesn't care what anybody else does unless it's something he wants to do, too. ;)
DH and I have started referring to her as "The Informer", which I know isn't nice. :O And DH is the one who is having to deal with her most of the time. Is there any kind of gentle response he can give to her when she keeps bugging him about the boys simply acting like boys? DH and I and the other boy's father are watching them 99% of the time, and we call them away if we see them heading towards something they shouldn't be doing (we practice at the National Guard Armory most of the time), so it's not like they're constantly running around unsupervised. We hate to say anything to the girl's uncle because he's a really sweet man (Christian, too, from what I've seen), and we don't want to make things awkward for him. :shrug2 But DH is a little less patient than I am, and I'd like to find some sort of game plan for him to have so that he's less likely to explode on the poor girl during some stressful moment. :blush
This is just something I've never had to deal with before...Kevin usually doesn't care what anybody else does unless it's something he wants to do, too. ;)