Eowyn
08-06-2007, 03:18 PM
Ian and Henry are 20 months apart. Ian's newly 4, Henry's 2. They are currently thoroughly obsessed with the cars from the movie Cars. It's what they're playing with these days. Henry will occasionally swoop in and take a car Ian has just put down and is still playing with. What we do for those incidents is to have Ian ask for his toy back, and have Henry return it to him, or we help him do so, then they move on.
The bigger problem we're facing lately is that Ian is deciding that he wants cars Henry's playing with, and simply walks over and takes them or tackles Henry to get them. He pitches a royal fit when instructed to give it back (Henry asks for it back), and is basically big feelings about it all over the place.
We've tried divying up the cars before they start playing, and we should probably do that more often, but they like playing together, and before you know it, they've mixed them all and are fighting again.
We're most interested in preventing Ian from taking cars from his brother in the first place, but as I can't be 2 feet from them all day, some suggestions for what to do when it happens are also appreciated.
The bigger problem we're facing lately is that Ian is deciding that he wants cars Henry's playing with, and simply walks over and takes them or tackles Henry to get them. He pitches a royal fit when instructed to give it back (Henry asks for it back), and is basically big feelings about it all over the place.
We've tried divying up the cars before they start playing, and we should probably do that more often, but they like playing together, and before you know it, they've mixed them all and are fighting again.
We're most interested in preventing Ian from taking cars from his brother in the first place, but as I can't be 2 feet from them all day, some suggestions for what to do when it happens are also appreciated.