Amythestmama
07-25-2007, 07:41 AM
Dd used her chair to get up to the counter and get the matches and then moved the chair over to the stove where I had a candle burning. Then she proceeded to sitck 6 matches, one at a time into the candle and start them on fire and then blow them out! :jawdrop I found her doing the 7th as I came out of the room I was cleaning out to check on them. :pray4 Thankfully she did not burn herself or drop a match and start her dress or something else on fire!
So what would you do? I asked what she was doing. "Blowing out the candles (matches)." I said that matches were not for little girls and she only needed to blow them out when mama was holding them for her. I explained that she could hurt herself and burn the house down and not to ever play with the matches anymore. I also said that what she was doing was a bad idea b/c she could be hurt etc.
The first thing both MIL and my mom asked was "Did you spank her? She won't understand how damgerous that was/is unless you do!" :scratch I said "No. Of course I didn't spank her. I was the one who didn't put the matches back in the cupboard like I normally would b/c I was in a hurry when I lit the candle. I was the one who was cleaning in the other room instead of watching her closely." What I did do was to call MIL to come read stories and play with them so I could finish cleaning and get the bedroom furniture moved downstairs. I also put the matches in the cupboard and blew out the candle. I had her put her chair in the other room.
So what would you do? I asked what she was doing. "Blowing out the candles (matches)." I said that matches were not for little girls and she only needed to blow them out when mama was holding them for her. I explained that she could hurt herself and burn the house down and not to ever play with the matches anymore. I also said that what she was doing was a bad idea b/c she could be hurt etc.
The first thing both MIL and my mom asked was "Did you spank her? She won't understand how damgerous that was/is unless you do!" :scratch I said "No. Of course I didn't spank her. I was the one who didn't put the matches back in the cupboard like I normally would b/c I was in a hurry when I lit the candle. I was the one who was cleaning in the other room instead of watching her closely." What I did do was to call MIL to come read stories and play with them so I could finish cleaning and get the bedroom furniture moved downstairs. I also put the matches in the cupboard and blew out the candle. I had her put her chair in the other room.