poleidopy
07-24-2007, 10:24 PM
Lately 3yo DS will say "Micah (13mo) needs a time out! He was bad!" but we don't do time outs and I never tell them they are "bad." He is never around anyone to have heard this (but obviously he must have.) What do I do? I tell him we dont do time outs, that we use the comfort corner and he just insists, "No! Micah needs a time out!" :scratch
And he is saying "NO" and AWFUL lot lately! I say not to kick his brother, feet stay on the floor, he says "No! I WANT to kick Micah!" I say "You may not" and I help him move his feet. He does it again and says NO. Or I will tell him to do something and he will say no...while doing it. :scratch DO I even need to say/do anything about that?
ANd what are some good ways to teach him to deal with his emotions? I am NOT a healthy role model when it comes to dealing with emotions, and I want to be. I want to teach him so he isn't screwed up like me when he's an adult. :/ The only thing we've been doing lately re: emotions, is when he is mad I say "You are very angry arent you? You may not do XXX when you are angry. Lets huff & puff like the BIg BAd Wolf." ANd he looks at me like I'm nuts and laughs. :neutral
And he is saying "NO" and AWFUL lot lately! I say not to kick his brother, feet stay on the floor, he says "No! I WANT to kick Micah!" I say "You may not" and I help him move his feet. He does it again and says NO. Or I will tell him to do something and he will say no...while doing it. :scratch DO I even need to say/do anything about that?
ANd what are some good ways to teach him to deal with his emotions? I am NOT a healthy role model when it comes to dealing with emotions, and I want to be. I want to teach him so he isn't screwed up like me when he's an adult. :/ The only thing we've been doing lately re: emotions, is when he is mad I say "You are very angry arent you? You may not do XXX when you are angry. Lets huff & puff like the BIg BAd Wolf." ANd he looks at me like I'm nuts and laughs. :neutral