JavaMama
03-31-2006, 03:12 PM
Okay, so I'm frustrated, that's probably pretty obvious. Anyway, both of my kids just loooooove to make messes. And I don't mind to a certain extent, they're kids, they're young, blah blah so I know that's part of it. Except I cannot get dd to help clean up most of the time, it's pretty sad when your average 2-3yo is more helpful than your 5yo :neutral. She's suddenly so tired or just needs to rest. :rolleyes So I'll give her a choice: "Help me clean up the bread crust you crumbled on the floor or go lay down on your bed (if you are that tired)." That doesn't work unfortunately.
I have been working with her ALL DAY today trying to get her to pick up her books, she got EVERY book out of the toy box where they are being temporarily stored (we're kinda in a transition here, but more organized than we've ever been FWIW) and EVERY toy had been dumped from the toy organizers. She had enough energy though to take all the little containers (http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=sc_pgc_r_12_0_10323431/602-1242341-0173414?%5Fencoding=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B0000CEI4L) and make a big walkway, which she knows is not allowed because they broke some of them before walking on them but she "can't" pick up the toys or books.
I don't mind helping them pick up things if it gives her a little incentive, but I totally can't (and shouldn't have to IMO) crawl around on the floor and pick up all the toys and books by myself, or with only ds' assistance, after they've deliberately dumped them on the floor to make a mess. It's getting to the point where doing that sort of thing brings on a lot of contractions.
Anyway, does that make sense? I'm feeling pretty negative about this and dd now and I need to turn this around to positive. BTW, they only have 1/2 of the toys that they had before Christmas and they didn't get but a couple of small things for Christmas so I've already dramatically reduced the amount of toys and that hasn't helped very much, except to make it so the mess isn't quite so big. :(
DH and I decided dd's "spending the night w/Grammy and Papaw" privileges have been suspended for this weekend and she's pretty upset about it but even telling her that she COULD spend the night with them if she finished the job wasn't incentive enough. :shrug She told me just now she'd go pick up but came right back out of the playroom...
I have been working with her ALL DAY today trying to get her to pick up her books, she got EVERY book out of the toy box where they are being temporarily stored (we're kinda in a transition here, but more organized than we've ever been FWIW) and EVERY toy had been dumped from the toy organizers. She had enough energy though to take all the little containers (http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=sc_pgc_r_12_0_10323431/602-1242341-0173414?%5Fencoding=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B0000CEI4L) and make a big walkway, which she knows is not allowed because they broke some of them before walking on them but she "can't" pick up the toys or books.
I don't mind helping them pick up things if it gives her a little incentive, but I totally can't (and shouldn't have to IMO) crawl around on the floor and pick up all the toys and books by myself, or with only ds' assistance, after they've deliberately dumped them on the floor to make a mess. It's getting to the point where doing that sort of thing brings on a lot of contractions.
Anyway, does that make sense? I'm feeling pretty negative about this and dd now and I need to turn this around to positive. BTW, they only have 1/2 of the toys that they had before Christmas and they didn't get but a couple of small things for Christmas so I've already dramatically reduced the amount of toys and that hasn't helped very much, except to make it so the mess isn't quite so big. :(
DH and I decided dd's "spending the night w/Grammy and Papaw" privileges have been suspended for this weekend and she's pretty upset about it but even telling her that she COULD spend the night with them if she finished the job wasn't incentive enough. :shrug She told me just now she'd go pick up but came right back out of the playroom...