ServantofGod
02-25-2006, 10:23 AM
I'm trying to keep a positive spin on this. :shifty Mason....ah, at 14 months, his ability to stick to an idea knows no bounds. :banghead My SIL says, "See, he's so advanced, he's 'terrible twos' at barely one!" :laughtears
But on a more serious note, he really wears me OUT. I mean totally, completely exhausts me. :poke He's ten children in one.
He hates to have his diaper changed. He's pretty much hated it his entire life. He protests diaper changes about 7 out of 10 changes. He almost always cries, at least. Sometimes he kicks and writhes. I hold his legs and tell him No. Distraction does not work. I have at least 24 toys and gizmos nearby, but he either throws them or drops them into the business end or just won't take them in the first place.
He hates to be confined. There are some times he really just has to be confined in a play yard - the big grey kind that makes a large octagon. He cries and fumes. Sometimes, he simply has to cry and fume. :duck I hate to send punitive in that way, but I do need to get a shower.
He's aggravating over food. He want the specific food he wants right this second. If it's the wrong food, he wails, writhes in the chair and "sweeps" any offered food off the tray. If I get him down anyway, he's miserable because (I think) he's hungry. I'm loathe to become a mother who tries 40 foods to find the "magic" food that will make him happy, but - what can I do? There is offer one food and get him down when he refuses, knowing he will be miserable until he eventually does eat or offer several foods to get the one that makes him happy. What's more, he doesn't tolerate dairy or soy, so some of the foods he's pitching a fit over I can't give him regardless.
I really do believe that there is an "upside" to his decisive, persistant, ambitious ways :/, but it would also be nice if I didn't feel like it's a constant fiasco to accomplish the most simple tasks. How do you cope with a child who never seems to "get it" that some things have to be this way? :shrug I mean, I've been changing his diaper every day since birth, but he has yet to accept that his diaper will be changed.
But on a more serious note, he really wears me OUT. I mean totally, completely exhausts me. :poke He's ten children in one.
He hates to have his diaper changed. He's pretty much hated it his entire life. He protests diaper changes about 7 out of 10 changes. He almost always cries, at least. Sometimes he kicks and writhes. I hold his legs and tell him No. Distraction does not work. I have at least 24 toys and gizmos nearby, but he either throws them or drops them into the business end or just won't take them in the first place.
He hates to be confined. There are some times he really just has to be confined in a play yard - the big grey kind that makes a large octagon. He cries and fumes. Sometimes, he simply has to cry and fume. :duck I hate to send punitive in that way, but I do need to get a shower.
He's aggravating over food. He want the specific food he wants right this second. If it's the wrong food, he wails, writhes in the chair and "sweeps" any offered food off the tray. If I get him down anyway, he's miserable because (I think) he's hungry. I'm loathe to become a mother who tries 40 foods to find the "magic" food that will make him happy, but - what can I do? There is offer one food and get him down when he refuses, knowing he will be miserable until he eventually does eat or offer several foods to get the one that makes him happy. What's more, he doesn't tolerate dairy or soy, so some of the foods he's pitching a fit over I can't give him regardless.
I really do believe that there is an "upside" to his decisive, persistant, ambitious ways :/, but it would also be nice if I didn't feel like it's a constant fiasco to accomplish the most simple tasks. How do you cope with a child who never seems to "get it" that some things have to be this way? :shrug I mean, I've been changing his diaper every day since birth, but he has yet to accept that his diaper will be changed.