Heather Micaela
02-08-2006, 04:49 PM
I want to make it clear that my mom does NOT spank my kids and has only done it once 3 years ago. We have a close relationship and talk about most everything. However, I am aware that there are certain subjects that will cause her to needlessly get offended.
It was suggested that I tell her we no longer spank and make sure it is clear that she is not to spank them either. Since the spanking is ongoing (and she may not even remember that she did it) - is it REALLY necessary to bring up? And if I do, how do I do it in a way that doesn't sound like I'm condeming her or that I just joined the looney bin.
I imagine her reacting the same as if I came up to her out of the blue and said "Now mom, I just want to make it clear that my kids may not watch R rated movies." Since she doesn't let them she'd be like :scratch :shrug. And probably be offended that I suggest she does.
My mom is a very patient person and just becuase she spanked me as a toddler doesn't mean that she will spank my kids. I am almost thinking of waiting till baby #3 enters the age she deems spanking appropriate and then braoch the issue.
Any suggestions?
It was suggested that I tell her we no longer spank and make sure it is clear that she is not to spank them either. Since the spanking is ongoing (and she may not even remember that she did it) - is it REALLY necessary to bring up? And if I do, how do I do it in a way that doesn't sound like I'm condeming her or that I just joined the looney bin.
I imagine her reacting the same as if I came up to her out of the blue and said "Now mom, I just want to make it clear that my kids may not watch R rated movies." Since she doesn't let them she'd be like :scratch :shrug. And probably be offended that I suggest she does.
My mom is a very patient person and just becuase she spanked me as a toddler doesn't mean that she will spank my kids. I am almost thinking of waiting till baby #3 enters the age she deems spanking appropriate and then braoch the issue.
Any suggestions?