sarahtar
08-29-2005, 05:05 PM
So what is a mama to do when those around her persist in lying to her child?
Examples:
- my mom didn't want Wally to touch something at her house, so she told him it was hot. (it wasn't)
- my mom didn't want to give Wally some of her pop (which I didn't want either) so she took his cup and told him she was going to pour some of her pop into his cup for him. She put the lid on her bottle, pretended to pour, and then said "OK, here you go, there's some of my pop in there."
- my MIL didn't want Wally to play on a karoke machine (which she and others had been encouraging him to play with about 30 minutes before) so she told him it was broken.
This drives me BATTY. There is no reason to lie to him. I have tried telling them "you can just tell him the truth, you know" I have tried instead talking directly to him "Actually, Wally, it's not broken, but why don't we come over here and play with this instead"
But yet they persist.
Ideas? Do I need to just sit them down and explain that I don't believe in lying to my children and would appreciate their cooperation in this matter?
Examples:
- my mom didn't want Wally to touch something at her house, so she told him it was hot. (it wasn't)
- my mom didn't want to give Wally some of her pop (which I didn't want either) so she took his cup and told him she was going to pour some of her pop into his cup for him. She put the lid on her bottle, pretended to pour, and then said "OK, here you go, there's some of my pop in there."
- my MIL didn't want Wally to play on a karoke machine (which she and others had been encouraging him to play with about 30 minutes before) so she told him it was broken.
This drives me BATTY. There is no reason to lie to him. I have tried telling them "you can just tell him the truth, you know" I have tried instead talking directly to him "Actually, Wally, it's not broken, but why don't we come over here and play with this instead"
But yet they persist.
Ideas? Do I need to just sit them down and explain that I don't believe in lying to my children and would appreciate their cooperation in this matter?