Can Dance
08-06-2005, 08:40 AM
referring to my husband by my MIL. EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.
I was trying to explain this idea to her. I said ITS NOT PERMISSIVE PARENTING. she said IT SOUNDS LIKE PERMISSIVE PARENTING. I said NO, its looking for more creative ways of discipling your child.
EWWWWW.
She said, WHAT IS THE UNDERLYING PHILOSOPHY? I said THAT WE GIVE GRACE TO OUR CHILDREN AS GOD GIVES GRACE TO US, NOT SPANKING IS ONLY A SMALL PART OF IT.
I also said THIS IS NOT COMMENTING AT ALL ON YOUR PARENTING STYLES, which lead her to the above comment.
:td :td :td :banghead :banghead :banghead
And why oh why would I want to HIT MY CHILD when she is told to not hit me when she does it?? (which by the way, she just started)
so yeah, it looks like dd staying with them is not looking so good at any point. at least I can tell my mum straight out DO NOT SPANK MY CHILD. she gets it more than when we were kids.
I also tried to make it clear it was not a personal attack on her parenting, but now I am wondering if she took it that way....
just had to vent.
C
I was trying to explain this idea to her. I said ITS NOT PERMISSIVE PARENTING. she said IT SOUNDS LIKE PERMISSIVE PARENTING. I said NO, its looking for more creative ways of discipling your child.
EWWWWW.
She said, WHAT IS THE UNDERLYING PHILOSOPHY? I said THAT WE GIVE GRACE TO OUR CHILDREN AS GOD GIVES GRACE TO US, NOT SPANKING IS ONLY A SMALL PART OF IT.
I also said THIS IS NOT COMMENTING AT ALL ON YOUR PARENTING STYLES, which lead her to the above comment.
:td :td :td :banghead :banghead :banghead
And why oh why would I want to HIT MY CHILD when she is told to not hit me when she does it?? (which by the way, she just started)
so yeah, it looks like dd staying with them is not looking so good at any point. at least I can tell my mum straight out DO NOT SPANK MY CHILD. she gets it more than when we were kids.
I also tried to make it clear it was not a personal attack on her parenting, but now I am wondering if she took it that way....
just had to vent.
C