flowermama
06-24-2005, 12:36 PM
My two girls have one bedroom, and my older son has one bedroom (which he will share with his brother when he is older).
There are times when the older two children (one brother and one sister) don't want the other in their room.
Right now the rule is that the can go in each others rooms, but that they need to leave when their sibling asks them to leave. They don't always want to leave, though. :/
I'm wondering ... should we have them knock before they enter their sibs room and ask if it's okay to enter? or if the door is open, should it be okay to enter, but to knock if it is closed? would that be too many rules? or would that be polite?
What if they don't leave when the other one asks them to leave? In the past I've said that means that they lose the priviledge of being in their sibs room for awhile if they don't leave when their sib asks, but I don't know if that is the best way to handle it.
And what if the sibling asking the other sib to leave doesn't ask politely? What if they yell "GET OUT!" or that type of thing. That seems rude. :/ How should I handle that?
Do you think they have a right to ask the sib to leave for any reason? like what if they are just annoyed at their sib and so they ask them to leave for that reason?
How do you handle these things in your own home? I need some ideas, please, if you'd like to share them. I'm feeling rather clueless at the moment.
There are times when the older two children (one brother and one sister) don't want the other in their room.
Right now the rule is that the can go in each others rooms, but that they need to leave when their sibling asks them to leave. They don't always want to leave, though. :/
I'm wondering ... should we have them knock before they enter their sibs room and ask if it's okay to enter? or if the door is open, should it be okay to enter, but to knock if it is closed? would that be too many rules? or would that be polite?
What if they don't leave when the other one asks them to leave? In the past I've said that means that they lose the priviledge of being in their sibs room for awhile if they don't leave when their sib asks, but I don't know if that is the best way to handle it.
And what if the sibling asking the other sib to leave doesn't ask politely? What if they yell "GET OUT!" or that type of thing. That seems rude. :/ How should I handle that?
Do you think they have a right to ask the sib to leave for any reason? like what if they are just annoyed at their sib and so they ask them to leave for that reason?
How do you handle these things in your own home? I need some ideas, please, if you'd like to share them. I'm feeling rather clueless at the moment.