Grover
06-13-2005, 04:56 AM
I have been having problems with my two dd's [13+9] who share a room setting down at night [just talking and playing-quite sweet really ]especially with the lighter evenings and they were tired in the morning for school.
Anyhow I had been slipping into punitive measures like"I see you are not tired,so tidy your room".Of course this didnt help they just argued over whose mess it was etc and were even more wound up and unable to settle.
Anyhow last night I just took my knitting and went and sat in their room.If they talked I just said " Goodnight now" and I only said that twice.Anyhow 20 mins later they were fast asleep.Its been ages since I 'helped' them to sleep.Its so obvious I wonder why I didnt think of this before.
Today two girls got up bright and early for school without being nagged or prompted.
Anyhow I had been slipping into punitive measures like"I see you are not tired,so tidy your room".Of course this didnt help they just argued over whose mess it was etc and were even more wound up and unable to settle.
Anyhow last night I just took my knitting and went and sat in their room.If they talked I just said " Goodnight now" and I only said that twice.Anyhow 20 mins later they were fast asleep.Its been ages since I 'helped' them to sleep.Its so obvious I wonder why I didnt think of this before.
Today two girls got up bright and early for school without being nagged or prompted.