Micah
04-23-2005, 08:41 AM
Ok I started reading the book 'How to Talk So Kids will Listen, and Listen so Kids will Talk'
I love it! :highfive I cannot put it down......
My question is for those moms who have 2 or more children that are over age 3....
How are you applying the the 4 'steps' when you have 2 kids both ranting and raving about each other and what the other has done when they are not getting along?
I understand the other, when a child is upset at someone not present (ie: susie at school) or something (ie My block tower keeps tipping over :hissyfit) etc....
Show me played out if you can when say
Logan (boy 8) and Mitchal (boy 3) cannot get along as a general rule and suddenly both are yelling and screaming at each other over a coloring book.
It's Logan's book, Mitchal colored on a page Logan had done and 'messed it up' etc...
I feel the 8 yr old is easier to deal with in the 4 steps but the 3.11 year old is harder to deal with when they are both going at it etc...
Who do you listen to first as they are both yelling 'mom!! Logan did this' and 'mom! Mitchal ruined my page' HELP??!! :lol
I love it! :highfive I cannot put it down......
My question is for those moms who have 2 or more children that are over age 3....
How are you applying the the 4 'steps' when you have 2 kids both ranting and raving about each other and what the other has done when they are not getting along?
I understand the other, when a child is upset at someone not present (ie: susie at school) or something (ie My block tower keeps tipping over :hissyfit) etc....
Show me played out if you can when say
Logan (boy 8) and Mitchal (boy 3) cannot get along as a general rule and suddenly both are yelling and screaming at each other over a coloring book.
It's Logan's book, Mitchal colored on a page Logan had done and 'messed it up' etc...
I feel the 8 yr old is easier to deal with in the 4 steps but the 3.11 year old is harder to deal with when they are both going at it etc...
Who do you listen to first as they are both yelling 'mom!! Logan did this' and 'mom! Mitchal ruined my page' HELP??!! :lol