daffodil
04-20-2005, 01:45 PM
So onto my second question of the day :smile
My 11 year old is playing nintendo. He has been for at least an hour. It is now bedtime so I ask him to please turn it off and get ready for bed. Instead he starts a new game. I know he heard me. I repeat my request nicely but firm. He ignores. I turn it off for him and send him to do what he is supposed to be doing. Of course he sais I am mean and slams the door. I follow him and explain to him that my request was acctualy not mean because he has been on there for a whole hour and to finish another game would take at least 20 min more and it is late. How would you have handled this? Do GBD kids say that there parents are mean when they don't get their way Or am I doing something wrong?
My 11 year old is playing nintendo. He has been for at least an hour. It is now bedtime so I ask him to please turn it off and get ready for bed. Instead he starts a new game. I know he heard me. I repeat my request nicely but firm. He ignores. I turn it off for him and send him to do what he is supposed to be doing. Of course he sais I am mean and slams the door. I follow him and explain to him that my request was acctualy not mean because he has been on there for a whole hour and to finish another game would take at least 20 min more and it is late. How would you have handled this? Do GBD kids say that there parents are mean when they don't get their way Or am I doing something wrong?